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It absolutely does. Can't emphasize it enough: Please respect your SO enough to NEVER lie, distort the truth, or leave out details that change everything. For your relationship to last and be strong there must never be a time when your partner questions what you say, or that you haven’t said it all. And here is one more few people ever remember to do; tell your SO what they would want to know IF they had enough knowledge to ask you. (e.g. You met an old girlfriend accidentally for lunch today). Lies of "silence" are the worst of all.
If you feel
this concept is unworkable then you probably have trust and
communication issues with your SO. When a spouse / SO reacts badly to
what is being shared, they are discouraging further honest
communication. Never react badly if you want to hear more in the
future. If the things you hear are troublesome, wait for a quiet (read
receptive time) and then bring it up in a way to resolve your
discomfort.
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