Here is what one viewer had to say:
"I had to take
breaks watching this because I couldn't stop crying. I've always been the one
that sought more connection, more touch, and in my marriages, it eventually
ruined them both. I am older now, and hopefully wiser, but I am back in the
same boat. I am trying to learn from my mistakes, be more tolerant, patient,
and understanding, but I'm still having difficulty with the disconnect. Her
comments about rejection hit me so hard that I still have tears sliding down my
cheeks. I know he loves me, but knowing it and feeling it are completely
different things. I'm asking him to watch this. I need to know I'm not alone,
because it always feels as though I am."
She has a good understanding of what makes relationships work and what does not. Her advice is solid.
Below is a short video she gave at a "TED Talks" presentation a while back. It serves as an introduction to her book by the same title. I highly recommend her book as it is the best I have come across if you need a quick read that covers the subject well and gives you practical actions for a solution
Her book is available almost everywhere including online. A good place to look is second hand book stores and thrift stores. Often can find it for just a couple of dollars or less. I got my copy for $1.
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