Neither men nor women REALLY mean this when they say it ! It is NOT the "TRUTH" they want; that in and of itself could get really ugly. What we all really want and need here are the words that confirm the correct behavior and provide reassurance from our partners. Before you can tell the "truth" to your partner you need to know that the "truth" will show you behaving in a way that will compliment who you are. If your behavior is already untrue what difference do your words make? Dishonest behaviour has no limits for dishonest words.
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