Failure to do this is at the root of many an unnecessary argument, which then grows into resentment, which then causes emotional withdrawal, which then causes physical distance. If left unattended the "bridge" to "connect again" will become very difficult to build. Put yourself in your SO's "shoes". Start with "empathy" and "understanding" before you speak. When your partner feels that their feelings are being respected, your differences can be quickly resolved. Validate your spouses feelings!
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