GUYS... This one is for you. And ladies...feel free to share with your men. This is another "car / relationship" analogy. It seems that most men relate very well to these so here goes again.
Women will look at this photo and take a minute to process what they are looking at. Most guys will take 1 split second to feel a sense of panic before they realize... "oh... not my car".
When you are in a relationship that you care about (or in one YOU SHOULD care about ) it is vital to keep your ears and eyes open for signs all is not well. Most guys would never allow their car to come to the point where multiple "trouble" lights come on. This is especially true when most of the trouble can be avoided with just routine care and attention.
Most men that I know are so in tune with their cars to the degree that the most minute variable in sound while driving, or the slightest pulling to one side when you take your hand of the wheel is reason for concern. They know how the car should respond to any given pressure on the gas peddle. Men and their cars are one. They operate as a single unit. The vehicle is just an extension of themselves both in appearance and in performance.
However, it is much more difficult for a man to see himself and the woman he is in a relationship with as one unit. It appears that things can veer a long way from where they should be before they may notice.
If you neglect your car long enough you will one day wake up to realize it is "unfixable". Or at the least that you are no longer prepared to pay the price required to restore what needs to be restored. You will feel relief to finally get rid of what you once loved and start fresh with a newer, younger model..... only to repeat the experience again.
Do not let your relationship with your woman become the story of you and your many cars. There are some things a woman in your life can do for you that no car ever will.
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© Herald's Corner 2016
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